She is probably out of my league - but listen to Regina Dugan's TED talk below where she asks a great question that should be used by all leaders;
What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?
Think for a moment what the Navy does with failure. What we do when someone has one misstep. One poorly detailed set of orders. Just one.
Ponder then watch.
Smart as a whip. Type A. Outstanding leader.
All that and a box of chocolates. New DARPA project; clone Regina.